Premarital Counseling Questionnaire

It is a surprise that we are getting married, isn't it?
Here is another surprise, we are attending the Premarital Counseling with Pastor Rick! Could any Chinese believe this? At least my parents were shocked, "what, you need take course, read bible, do homework, and finish some questionaire?" Yeah, it creats some work. But we believe it will benefit us life-long...

Pastor Rick & Bob>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Following are some questions (there are 100 more), hopefully they could inspire the thoughts of friends who are going to get married :P

1. List seven qualitites you had in mind that would be desirable in the person you would choose to marry.
2. List reasons which led to your decision to marry your fiance. (These may include attitudes, personality traits, physical attractiveness, etc.)
3. If you were asked to describe your relationship in one word, what would it be?
4. What word do you think your fiancé would use?
5. List 3 of the best memories from your dating experience with your fiancé.
6. List 3 of the worst memories from your dating experience with your fiancé.
7. List several kinds of things the two of you like to do together.
8. What kind of place has physical involvement played in your relationship? Do you feel this is in proper balance?
9. What place has the Lord played in your relationship? Do you feel He is in the place He should be in your relationship?
10. What is your definition of marriage?
11. In your opinion what do you think are the most important factors that will make a marriage a success?
12. What do you bring to your marriage that will help make it a success?
13. What does your fiancé bring to your marriage that will help make it a success?
14. How were feelings of love, warmth, and tenderness shown in your home as you were growing up? How would you like feelings of love, warmth, and tenderness shown to you in public and in your home?
15. What fears and concerns do you have about marriage? your marriage?